Beginner's Guide To Using Anal Vibrators For The First Time
Doing “butt stuff” may have been a little taboo a few years ago, but today it’s an accepted and enjoyable form of intimacy with someone or when you’re having fun by yourself. For those who are new to anal fun, there are some factors to consider, such as comfort levels, how to prepare your body, and what kinds of toys to use. But even as a first timer, it can be a daunting prospect if you don’t have all the facts.
Let’s explore everything you need to know about using a vibrating anal toy for the first time:
Get Your Mind In The Right Space
A lot of women’s comfort and arousal is mental, which is a valid consideration when it comes to anal play. Anal sex comes with a lot of misinformation, taboo, and connotations that can make the entire ordeal seem daunting or, at the very least, uncomfortable.
So before you start looking into vibrating anal toys, you first need to get your brain on board. The only way you will enjoy anal play is if you are feeling comfortable and confident. And the only way to do that is to educate yourself. With some research, you’ll be able to try something new and fun — whether you’re on your own or with a partner — knowing what to expect and feeling more self-assured.
Ask your friends about their experiences if they’re comfortable to share, do the research, and take your time! Butt stuff is not something you should just dive right into. It’s best to take things slowly and getting your mindset in the right place before trying something that makes you feel anxious.
Start Slow And Small
When it comes to anal play with vibrating anal toys, slow and steady wins the race. The anus is tight and sensitive, which means that you can’t jam a big toy up there without preparing the field for entry first. Ideally, you can start with an anal training kit like the Pretty Love - Beginner's Anal Kit. This kit is perfect for exploring anal play and ensuring that your body is prepared for the kinds of toys you want to try.
Use The Right Toys
When you’re ready to graduate to larger toys for booty play that feels great, it’s important to use toys that are meant for butt stuff! There are tons of anal toys available, such as butt plugs, anal beads and vibrating anal toys. These toys are designed to go in your butt, which is why they’re best used only in your butt. Other toys, such as dildos, bullet vibrators and rabbits are meant for vaginal penetration or clitoral stimulation. Even though you can use these toys in anal play, it’s best not to risk it. Anal toys are designed to ensure that they don’t go too far up the anus or get stuck.
It’s not a pleasant thought, but is important to remember. If you have a dildo or sex toy with a wide base, then you’re safe to use it in your anus! As long as there’s something there to make sure it doesn’t go in too deep, you’re good to go with all the booty play your heart desires.
Hygiene Is Essential
Sex and masturbation can get messy, so it’s important to keep things clean. Because you’re inserting a toy into your anus, you’ll want to make sure everything is spick and span before you start. If you’re pressed for time, non-alcoholic and unscented wet wipes are a great option. If you’ve got time, go to the bathroom up to an hour before you’re ready to play. Empty your bowels and clean the area with warm water and soap.
If you want to take extra precautions, you can perform an enema one to two hours before you engage in anal play. Enemas are simple to use, and you can find reusable or disposable ones at the pharmacy.
After enjoying any anal toy, you need to clean up again! You can use wet wipes to remove excess lube, or take a luxurious bath to pamper yourself and relax your muscles. Your anal toy also needs to be cleaned after use. Not only is this good for your toy, but it’s also good for your body.
Avoid Double Dipping
Commonly known as “double dipping,” some women like to stimulate multiple orifices simultaneously to amplify their pleasure. With anal vibrating toys, you want to make sure that your body is kept safe and healthy. If you’re moving between pleasuring your anus and your vagina simultaneously, make sure not to use the same hand or the same toy without cleaning them first. Both the vagina and the anus have ecosystems of healthy bacteria, which cannot be shared!
Anal play can be extremely pleasurable for anyone, it just takes some preparation to get there. If you’re new to butt stuff, either with a partner or on your own, you’ll need to do your research, choose the right toy, and prepare your body. If you have questions about anal play or our vibrating anal toys, contact WST Australia.
Let’s explore everything you need to know about using a vibrating anal toy for the first time:
Get Your Mind In The Right Space
A lot of women’s comfort and arousal is mental, which is a valid consideration when it comes to anal play. Anal sex comes with a lot of misinformation, taboo, and connotations that can make the entire ordeal seem daunting or, at the very least, uncomfortable.
So before you start looking into vibrating anal toys, you first need to get your brain on board. The only way you will enjoy anal play is if you are feeling comfortable and confident. And the only way to do that is to educate yourself. With some research, you’ll be able to try something new and fun — whether you’re on your own or with a partner — knowing what to expect and feeling more self-assured.
Ask your friends about their experiences if they’re comfortable to share, do the research, and take your time! Butt stuff is not something you should just dive right into. It’s best to take things slowly and getting your mindset in the right place before trying something that makes you feel anxious.
Start Slow And Small
When it comes to anal play with vibrating anal toys, slow and steady wins the race. The anus is tight and sensitive, which means that you can’t jam a big toy up there without preparing the field for entry first. Ideally, you can start with an anal training kit like the Pretty Love - Beginner's Anal Kit. This kit is perfect for exploring anal play and ensuring that your body is prepared for the kinds of toys you want to try.
Use The Right Toys
When you’re ready to graduate to larger toys for booty play that feels great, it’s important to use toys that are meant for butt stuff! There are tons of anal toys available, such as butt plugs, anal beads and vibrating anal toys. These toys are designed to go in your butt, which is why they’re best used only in your butt. Other toys, such as dildos, bullet vibrators and rabbits are meant for vaginal penetration or clitoral stimulation. Even though you can use these toys in anal play, it’s best not to risk it. Anal toys are designed to ensure that they don’t go too far up the anus or get stuck.
It’s not a pleasant thought, but is important to remember. If you have a dildo or sex toy with a wide base, then you’re safe to use it in your anus! As long as there’s something there to make sure it doesn’t go in too deep, you’re good to go with all the booty play your heart desires.
Hygiene Is Essential
Sex and masturbation can get messy, so it’s important to keep things clean. Because you’re inserting a toy into your anus, you’ll want to make sure everything is spick and span before you start. If you’re pressed for time, non-alcoholic and unscented wet wipes are a great option. If you’ve got time, go to the bathroom up to an hour before you’re ready to play. Empty your bowels and clean the area with warm water and soap.
If you want to take extra precautions, you can perform an enema one to two hours before you engage in anal play. Enemas are simple to use, and you can find reusable or disposable ones at the pharmacy.
After enjoying any anal toy, you need to clean up again! You can use wet wipes to remove excess lube, or take a luxurious bath to pamper yourself and relax your muscles. Your anal toy also needs to be cleaned after use. Not only is this good for your toy, but it’s also good for your body.
Avoid Double Dipping
Commonly known as “double dipping,” some women like to stimulate multiple orifices simultaneously to amplify their pleasure. With anal vibrating toys, you want to make sure that your body is kept safe and healthy. If you’re moving between pleasuring your anus and your vagina simultaneously, make sure not to use the same hand or the same toy without cleaning them first. Both the vagina and the anus have ecosystems of healthy bacteria, which cannot be shared!
Anal play can be extremely pleasurable for anyone, it just takes some preparation to get there. If you’re new to butt stuff, either with a partner or on your own, you’ll need to do your research, choose the right toy, and prepare your body. If you have questions about anal play or our vibrating anal toys, contact WST Australia.